WEEKLY PODCAST | In Between.144

How many of you are familiar with Anthony De Mello? He’s written a boatload of books, and turns out the only one I have is The Way to Love. He was an Indian Psychotherapist who was also a Hindu-Catholic and wrote many books on spirituality. He was a masterful storyteller, and today, Bill retells the story about the Guru’s cat.

Listen and see what you get from it - there are many layers here, but ultimately, one of the points is not to hold our doctrine so rigidly that we lose sight of people and presence. When we are busy arguing about doctrine, we are no longer in the experience. We lose sight of the sacred and of each other.

In deconstructing our faith, it can feel necessary to take something from the old into the new so we can learn how to hold it loosely and allow it (and ourselves) to change. The Guru’s cat was initially just a cat, but it eventually became the central meaning of the meditative community, and the whole thing fell apart.

Next week, we’ll talk about reconstructing. But in the meantime, don’t tie up your Guru’s cat.

SUNDAY LECTURE | How To Live and Love in This World

ORDINARY LIFE - Thoughts and Ideas to Help You Live a Happier Life

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Summary of Ordinary Life for November 5, 2023

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Dear Ones -

One of my spiritual practices is what in Buddhism is called Tonglen. In the Christian tradition a similar practice would be called “petitionary prayer.” The practice is one where we consciously take the suffering of the world into ourselves and, then, send forth in its place loving-kindness and compassion, peacefulness, and ease. At the moment there is a lot of suffering going on in this world. Some of it the result of natural disasters. Much of it the product of human evil. What, in this kind of world, does it mean to pray “thy kingdom come.”

I called the talk I offered in Ordinary Life this week -

How to Live and Love in this World

and spoke to this complex issue.

As part of this time I gave out a handout summarizing the significant talks since beginning the theme of “walking the way” last Spring. A copy of that handout is on the Ordinary Life website.

This talk also includes an invitation for those of you for whom Ordinary Life matters to do the work that will be required to make this gathering your class so that it can continue into the future as a guide and resource for people who are seeking to conform their theology and belief system to “what is.”

That’s a brief summary of this week’s time in Ordinary Life.

The audio version of the talk has some significant differences from the text I spoke from. You can find the text of the talk, the presentation slides and the audio version of the talk using the links below.

Our podcast, “In Between,” can be accessed through the Ordinary Life web site.

If you would like to know how to make a contribution to Ordinary Life, click here for video instructions.

Be well and much love,

Bill Kerley

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WEEKLY PODCAST | In Between.143

It’s been a minute! Between Bill’s travels and life itself, we haven’t recorded in just over a month. We reconnect today amidst international crisis and domestic upheaval. Bill asks at one point, “What do we offer people to feel better, to make peace?” And the best I could come up with is learning to be with what is. Joanna Macy once said that we need to amass an army of Shambhala Warriors who are willing to hold the pain and sorrow of the world armed with justice, mercy, compassion, and love. I suppose this is what the work of Ordinary Life is all about. So join us as we talk through this and know that we stand with you in both heartache and hope.

SUNDAY LECTURE | Where The Two Seas Meet

ORDINARY LIFE - Thoughts and Ideas to Help You Live a Happier Life

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Summary of Ordinary Life for October 29, 2023

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Dear Ones -

Thanks to everyone who made it possible for me to have some time off . We had a great trip and time traveling the Rhine River from Amsterdam in the Netherlands to Basel in Switzerland. Then, we took the train to Bern to spend a few days with friends who live there.

Thanks especially to Wayne Herbert who covered the “communication” aspects of things.

I got to watch and hear the presentation that Dr. Holly Hudley made this week - “Where The Two Seas Meet.” Technology is wonderful and I am very grateful for it. And, for the people “behind the scenes - Tim Leatherwood, Lauren Cross, Joshua Rodkey, and John Watson - who make the magic happen. Thanks to all of you.

In doing spiritual teaching being relevant is a tricky matter. It involves not only what we “want” to hear but also what we “need” to hear. Couple this with the fast-changing circumstances in a world where so many things seem to be “coming apart at the seams” and the task is even more complicated. I thought Holly did an excellent job in meeting these challenges in her talk. The Israeli/Palestinian conflict was directly spoken to and set the stage for her leading us in a reflection of where we ourselves might be in our faith development. If you missed her talk, I encourage you to read it - or listen to it or watch it when it is up on the website.

Both the text of her talk and her presentation slides are on the Ordinary Life website.

Our podcast, “In Between,” can be accessed through the Ordinary Life web site.

If you would like to know how to make a contribution to Ordinary Life, click here for video instructions.

Be well and much love,

Bill Kerley

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