Last week I began by saying that our goal in doing spiritual work is to integrate
our spiritual beliefs and practices into all of life. Not all of life, of course, is
pleasant. Further, not all beliefs and practices that are classified as spiritual or
religious are wise or useful. Not at all. Some of the meanest and most destructive
acts carried out in the world have been carried out in the name of some
understanding of God or for some so-called "religious" belief.
I come back to my foundation point for the work I think our lives are about: The
central truth of and for spiritual practice is "paying attention" and developing the
resources to be present to "what is." Central to this spiritual practice is growing in
the capacity to be non-judgmental.
To bring this "spiritual goal" to fruition takes work and practice. We grow up
given a set of lenses through which to view the world. We are very reluctant to
give these lenses up. For one thing, the tribe that gave them to us does not want
us to give them up. For another, by the time we have reached what we call
"adulthood" these "habits of the mind" are so deeply ingrained in us that giving
them up feels like losing our best friend.